Bullying People with Disabilities: A Shameful Sign of the Times

In The Guardian, a venerable British newspaper we read that 80 per cent of children in the UK with developmental disabilites are bullied and that many of them fear going out in public or attending school. In 2009 the Equality and Human Rights Commision in Britain undertook a survey and hearings to address the terrible scourge of discrimination against people with disabilities. They found, among other things that pwds were four times more likely to be victims of crime than non-disabled citizens and that disabled young people were most likely to be at risk. Here in the US the problem is just as large and the evidence to support this is everywhere. One can read hair raising narratives over at the Facebook page devoted to stopping disability bullying. If you simply Google the matter you will read page after page of material on the subject. Over at Disaboom (one of POTB's favorite disability sites) one can read practical suggestions about how to handle bullying and more. At Disaboom you can learn about the particular dynamics of disability bullying but the following is generally useful:

"Children with visible and invisible disabilities are significantly more likely than their peers to be the victims of bullying behavior. The type of bullying experienced often differs according to the child’s disability.

Children with visible conditions, like cerebral palsy and spina bifida, are more likely to be called names or aggressively excluded from social activities. Children with learning disabilities report higher rates of teasing and physically abusive victimization. Obesity has also been linked to higher rates of bullying. Overweight girls are especially vulnerable to physical forms of bullying.

Children with special needs are not exclusively victims of bullying. Research suggests that children with ADHD are more likely to demonstrate bullying behavior than their typical peers. Impulsivity and a lower tolerance for frustration are characteristics of this disorder that are also associated with bullying. Peer relationships are often extremely difficult and complex for children with ADHD. They need support and supervision to practice healthy social interactions with others. Whether victim or perpetrator, school bullying impedes learning and stunts the development of a healthy self-esteem." (See Disaboom link above.)

The disclosure of the bullying of a girl with special needs in Washington Courthouse, Ohio this past week has kept me half awake since I heard about it. I was that kid. I was treated poorly by classmates and some teachers. I know what its like. I will never forget how the hot blood of shame and fear feels as it courses through one's nether parts.   

 

On Bullying a Girl with Special Needs in a Nice Little Town

Hidden Recordings Show Teachers Bullying 14-Year-Old Student
(Today Show)
November 15, 2011

WASHINGTON COURT HOUSE, OHIO– [Excerpt provided by Inclusion Daily] When a 14-year-old special needs student in Ohio told her father she was being bullied at school, he figured it was something that many teenagers endure. 

Then he realized it was his daughter's teachers doing the bullying. 

After being told repeatedly by school administrators that his daughter was lying about being harassed and bullied, he outfitted her with a hidden tape recorder under her clothes. For the next four days, she recorded a series of abusive and cutting remarks from a teacher and a teacher's aide at Miami Trace Middle School in Washington Courthouse, Ohio.

The father, Brian, and his daughter, Cheyanne (their last names were withheld in the interview), appeared on TODAY with their attorneys Tuesday as snippets from the secret audio tapes were played.

Entire article:
Teachers caught on tape bullying special-needs girl

http://tinyurl.com/7maxd57


 

Uncle Theory and the Human Body

Pickle theorypickle theory

 

Uncle Theory decides the body is simply an idea, a reflection of a hand in a puddle. He imagines there’s a human body inside every snowflake.  

After his morning exercises he imagines two bodies inside every snowflake. Even old Uncle Theory likes naturalistic pornography. 

He lights a cigarette in his imagination as the first snow falls. “Now,” he thinks, “It’s time to write that textbook.”

 

 

 

BBC E-mail: Life as a disabled person in Africa

I saw this story on the BBC News iPhone App and thought you should see it.

** Life as a disabled person in Africa **
A new documentary film, Body and Soul, shot in Mozambique tells the story of day-to-day life for three young disabled people – showing the many challenges they face, but also their determination to get ahead.
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Optimism and Poetry

By Andrea Scarpino

I was washing the dishes and listening to NPR on the radio. Not really listening. Daydreaming. And then, a slow, hilting, melodic voice: Representative Gabrielle Giffords reading from the last chapter of her audio book. Representative Giffords, who was shot in the head less than one year ago by a shooter standing only feet away. On the radio, she was reading, speaking slowly but clearly. 

Most of the ensuing story was an interview with her husband, Mark Kelly, who has always seemed more optimistic about her progress than I believed, has maintained that she was progressing quickly, working hard, walking. I didn’t think he was lying, exactly, but maybe painting a prettier picture than existed. She was shot in the head, remember, from point-blank range. That’s not an injury most people even survive.

And it’s true that she’s walking only very short distances—to the mailbox, he said—and that she speaks very short sentences. It’s true that she may never regain all of the mental or physical function that she had before being shot. But as the interview progressed, I realized how central to Giffords’ recovery that optimism has been. The belief that she will return to work, that she will run for re-election, that she will ride her bike again, has clearly been an incredible source of motivation, of inspiration.

Of course, Giffords also has the benefit of stellar health insurance, of having been treated immediately after being shot, of access to the best doctors, physical therapists, speech therapists. I would never suggest that optimism alone helps much of anything. But when faced with such a devastating injury, maybe the only course of action is to believe more than seems possible, to work toward more than anyone else believes possible. Maybe the only way to progress is near-delusional optimism. 

Mark Kelly is an astronaut, after all, a man who has done the impossible, who has left this Earth—and then returned. Traveling through space, then returning safely: doesn’t that take an overwhelming belief in the impossible? An overwhelming optimism?

The interview ended, and NPR played another clip from Representative Giffords’ audio book. Again that lovely, melodic voice, stilted and beautiful. “It's frustrating, mentally hard, hard work,” she said. “I'm trying, trying so hard to get better. I will get stronger. I will return.”

That optimism. That belief. And in the quality of her voice, in her pauses, in her repetition, she spoke like a poet. And I heard poetry.

 

Poet and essayist Andrea Scarpino is a regular contributor to POTB. You can visit her at:

www.andreascarpino.com

 

Essay: General Conditions

 

My father turns in his grave toward Finland–meantime the sun covers the dead leaves with the colors of hope. So what if I can’t stand as tall as I used to? Walking this morning in the scrubbed air I think of human progress, remember what a nice idea it is. 

Here’s to good ideas. And here’s to the single tree, a catalpa just outside my door which does not care how naked it is before the hieroglyphics of winter. Again, here we are in the shadow season and it feels like old news, the news reread just for the sake of reading.  

 

Call for Input: Senate Debates Accessible Transportation

We just received the following from the American Association of People with Disabilities:

On Thursday, November 17 the Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor & Pensions (HELP) will hold a full committee hearing on The Americans with Disabilities Act and Accessible Transportation:  Challenges and Opportunities.

This is an opportunity to let the HELP Committee know important accessible transportation is for people with disabilities and urge them to take tangible, immediate steps to fund projects that promote transportation access. 

 

Did you know? Twelve percent of people with disabilities have difficulty getting the transportation they need, compared to three percent of people without disabilities.

Access to affordable and reliable transportation allows people with disabilities important opportunities in education, employment, healthcare, housing and participation in community life.  Because our nation’s investments in transportation infrastructure have disproportionately favored cars and highways, those who cannot afford cars or do not operate cars often lack viable transportation options. People with disabilities—particularly in rural areas—need accessible, affordable transportation options that bring employment, health care, education, and community life within reach.

The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) prohibits discrimination on the basis of disability in public transportation services, such as city buses and public rail (subways, commuter trains, etc.)  and requires that public transportation be accessible.

We must let the HELP committee know how important these provisions of the ADA are for our community and demand that our leaders focus on the need for transportation equity.  This is the time to overcome the challenges and take advantage of opportunities in order to fulfill their obligations to Americans with disabilities.

Contact members of the HELP Committee to let them know how important this issue is to you.

Click here for more information on the hearing and Committee members


 

The more I think about the GOP the more I wonder if ever again the best in our nature will clarify for truly decent conservative people. I happen to know many such folks. That well meaning principles have been sacrificed at the alter of theocratic extremism is terrible news for our republic. This is still a nation of good people. We deserve a good Republican party. Plenty will say I'm sniffing airplane glue. But Gerald Ford was a decent man. Bob Dole as well. Today's GOP shuns John Huntsman at its peril.

Ode to Deformity

 

Luckless as a willow

But not as tall

I stand like a broken wheel

& the reproach of my untamable life 

Holds up its shadow–

I think I could say more

If I knew myself better.

I sense my own sinister pride.

 

What more can I add?

The wrath of a man & his song…

When I lived among roots

Deformity lived there. 

When I swam in the river,

When I worshipped the moon.

Days and nights

My sulphur, my sliding shoe…