That’s right; it’s official. Today I am an empty nester. It is the first day of the rest of my life.
Child # Two, my son, my baby, moved out yesterday. With the help of
three friends he’s moved to an apartment in town. Steve and I are
moving to Iowa City. Ross wants to stay or so he thinks. I think I’m
OK with it. Kinda sorta.
I went to bed last night as I usually do and as usual, Ross was not
home. I felt a little weepy but I think I was too tired. My head hit
the pillow and out I went. The next thing I knew there was a knock on
the door. "I just came by to pick up a few things" he said followed by
"I miss you already".
He stopped by again early this morning and just a little while ago
we spoke and he said he’d swing by again. More stuff to pick up I
suppose.
It’s a good thing because Maggie, our Golden Retriever, is lying by
the door waiting for him as she does every night. I think she may be
suffering from empty nest syndrome.
As for me, I don’t know yet. I’ll have to get back to you on that one.
~ Connie
Photo description: This is Ross’ senior high school portrait photo. It was taken outdoors; there is a tree in the background. He’s wearing a black sweater and he’s leaning forward ever so slightly against a railing we can’t see. He’s got dark brown hair, blue eyes and although you can’t see them in the photo, long eyelashes to die for.
I feel for the pooch too Jennifer. Maggie misses not only Ross, but all the other young men who would parade through the house with him. She loves the boys!
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What a bittersweet time, but how wonderful that you are sending such a wonderful young man into the world.
I must admit… I feel for the pooch!! I hope somehow, the pooch understands that this is a rite of passage. I’ve talked to all of my dogs… hoping they understand.
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Ohhh…this sounds hard. How is it that they grow up so very fast? One minute a sweet baby and the next minute a sweet young adult (but still our babies!)
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Thanks you two. Keep makin’ those memories at home because before you know it those kids of yours will be flying the coop.
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Good for Ross. Good luck to him. This is what we raise them for.
Why do we do that to ourselves? This day will kill me when it comes to our house!
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Hi Connie,
Thinking of you. I can only imagine. Won’t get all mushy.
🙂
BG
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