You Are Cordially Invited to Pave the Way

Three cheers to Randy Earle who has written a terrific post over at We Will Find a Way entitled “You Are Cordially Invited to Pave the Way”. Among other things he says:

“I have grown accustomed to getting a blank stare upon requesting accommodations, most would be deal-breakers for any other patron or customer, like safe passage or functioning elevators or even workable chairs. I tend to use my doggedness and dead-pan humor to negotiate life’s challenges and opportunities. Someone once described me as equal parts determination and pragmatism. It’s a mix that works for most situations. I smile often. I nod. I empathize. I work to diffuse tense situations, but I do get tired of being the exception to the rule.”

Three cheers for his exhortation to the temporarily non-disabled:

“Be my advocate, readers, and the advocate of millions of others like me. Locate the wheelchair accessible seats at  the next concert you attend. Pay attention to how many venues block out a few seats in the last row only. Try to follow the handicap signs to negotiate a step-less entry into a building. Note if you get lost. Clock the time it takes to navigate. Make a reservation at a restaurant and inquire about accessible seating and large print menus. Believe me, someone you know will need these accommodations, maybe even you.”

 

 

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Author: stevekuusisto

Poet, Essayist, Blogger, Journalist, Memoirist, Disability Rights Advocate, Public Speaker, Professor, Syracuse University

0 thoughts on “You Are Cordially Invited to Pave the Way”

  1. As someone new to the blogosphere, I was jazzed that this piece got picked up. I’m convinced your kind promotion led to significantly increased readership. But, more importantly, I’m thrilled to be in conversation with like-minded advocates. Your books emboldened me to put paper to pen. Now I’m more committed to keep tackling difficult topics. Onward!

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  2. Well written and illuminating. I sit on a Board focused on employment and Chair the Abilities Committee. I fund that most people/employers lack any genuine understanding of the myriad challenges particularly the less obvious ines. I applaud you.

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