On Dining in the Dark and Other Staged Disability Events

Steve and Corky

It is hardly a surprise to those of us with disabilities when we hear of staged events inviting participatory empathy—moist occasions when the sighted pretend they’re blind and the bi-pedaled imagine themselves living with wheelchairs. There are other variants: men wearing high heels walking college campuses in support of abstract women has been a recent fad. One may  shiver at these meretricious and tawdry events but they represent something big and Disney-esque about neo-liberalism, mainly that all identity is essentially exchangeable with the right accoutrements—the citizen as consumer.

 

In disability land the worst offenders are the non-disabled who earnestly wish to share the idea that “disability is neat”. That disability is essentially value neuter like coconuts doesn’t matter to the Disney-non-disabled because assigning value is what the citizen as consumer does. Its a “dress up” world.

 

Dining in the dark is popular because the sighted get to imagine they’re in the half-sinister land of the blind—AND—they are consumers. It is an erotic economic pursuit with a hint of medieval alum.

 

A friend on Facebook has written to say her university is planning a dining in the dark event, sponsored by the disability student services office. That real blind people would find this understandably offensive is immaterial because, as I’ve said already, “its a dress up world” and moreover, no actual blind people were harmed in the making of this film.

 

Ableism exists without easily identifiable flags—a guide dog school hosts a dining in the dark event for its sighted donors because its all in fun; a university does the same.

 

But I don’t believe citizens are consumers first.

 

If I am here, entire, it does not matter how I cut my meat.

 

The half-sinister, erotic land of the blind can’t be put on a credit card—because it doesn’t exist.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Author: stevekuusisto

Poet, Essayist, Blogger, Journalist, Memoirist, Disability Rights Advocate, Public Speaker, Professor, Syracuse University

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