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The news that Oscar Pistorius has been charged with murder reflects what many in the US already know: that guns in the home increase the likelihood of violence. In the coming days and months we will hear all the sad facts and I predict there will be little else to say. Gun violence is all too prevalent, its carnage predictable. Guns help people kill people.  

By Andrea Scarpino

1. Celebrate. New Year’s Eve, decorating the Christmas tree, on birthdays and Mother’s Day and 4^th of July. But smaller days too: my father turned garage sales into a party, ordering pizza and soda for everyone at lunch, making a trip to Graeter’s Ice Cream at the end of the day to celebrate the trinkets and ties and furniture he and my step-mother sold. When he was a teenager, he treated his cousins at the soda shop every payday.  Even a random Saturday: lunch and dinner in a restaurant, the week’s grocery shopping squeezed between. 

 

1. Give presents. Big and small. A gingerbread house stuffed with flavored popcorn and old-fashioned candy. Teddy bears. Cards filled with exclamation points. Jewelry. When I was in college, bags of fruit and anisette cookies from the grocery store—he washed the fruit for me, divided it into plastic bags. One Christmas, with the help of a personal shopper, he bought my step-mother a leather miniskirt and motorcycle jacket. He loved that purchase—even though she returned it for something more sensible. 

 

1. Laugh. Scream. Cry. No matter: feel life deeply. When my father was angry, everyone knew it—he and my grandmother once threw eggplants at each other in an argument. When he was sad, everyone knew it—the one time I remember being spanked by him (for being mean to my grandmother), he felt so badly that he woke me in the night to apologize and let me come sleep with him. When he was happy, everyone knew it: he laughed wildly, grasped your hand. 

 

1. Get out into the world. Experience it: amusement parks, zoos, colonial forts, strawberry picking, ice skating, trips through China and South Africa, to Hadrian’s Wall, the Vatican, to Bed and Breakfasts just miles from his house, riverboat casinos, parks, museums, antique stores, walks around the neighborhood. The world is huge: go experience it. 

 

1. Work hard. Rest when you can. Listen to the radio. Watch crazy sci-fi on PBS when you can’t sleep. Be kind. Be generous. Help others when you can. Run like hell—always save yourself. Hold grudges when need be. Always speak to children. Give up your seat for a person who needs it more. Fill your home with sweets: flowers, diet soda, miniature candy bars, good tea. Sing every chance you get, no matter how terribly. Read daily. Support political candidates. Make people angry. Be vigilant about doctor’s visits. Use the car horn frequently. Always say yes to Parmesan cheese.  

(U.S. Department of State)
February 12, 2013

WASHINGTON, DC– [Excerpt provided by Inclusion Daily Express] Diversity is our strength, and everyone, including persons with disabilities, has important contributions to make.

That was one of the overarching messages at the 10th Special Olympics 2013 World Winter Games in South Korea this month, where athletes Tae Hemsath and Henry Meece — born in South Korea with developmental disabilities — returned to their birth country as Special Olympics athletes. Tae competed as a snowshoe racer, Henry as a snowboarder.

That same message resonated today throughout a public forum, where participants at Gallaudet University came to learn about opportunities in international exchange for persons with disabilities, and for members of the deaf community.

The audience was moved by the words and experiences of speakers, including U.S. Representative Tammy Duckworth (D-Ill.), a former Army helicopter pilot who lost her legs in Iraq; T. Alan Hurwitz, President of Gallaudet and recipient of the DeafNation Inspiration Award for Higher Education in 2012; and Dr. Christie L. Gilson, a Fulbright alumna who is the first blind member of the Fulbright Board.

Our message of disability inclusion is central to telling America’s story, because we believe that no story can be complete — and no challenges fully addressed — without everyone’s full involvement. Inclusion isn’t just the right thing to do. It’s the smart thing to do.

Entire article:
A Diverse and Socially Inclusive America Needs to Share Its Story
http://blogs.state.gov/index.php/site/entry/inclusive_america_story

(Pocono Record)
February 12, 2013

STROUDSBURG, PENNSYLVANIA– [Excerpt provided by Inclusion Daily Express] Surely banks could have done better in making their automated teller machines accessible to the blind.

It seems like a natural: keypads with Braille, audio prompts and the like. And advocates for the seeing-impaired have been working with the industry since 1999 to provide just such adaptations.

So why does it take a series of costly federal lawsuits to force banks to comply with changes they agreed years ago were needed?

Advocates for the blind and sight-impaired have filed 146 cases since December against banks in Pennsylvania New Jersey, Ohio and Texas, calling for them to come into compliance with the Americans with Disabilities Act by making all their ATMs, which are considered a public accommodation, accessible to the blind. Among the affected banks in the Pocono region are Honesdale Bank, Citizens, PNC, US Bank, Sovereign Bank, M&T Bank, First Niagara and BB&T. About 60 cases have been settled.

The National Federation of the Blind began discussions with ATM manufacturers and the banking industry as early as 1999 to define ATM accessibility for the blind. Some of the larger banks, including Bank of America, began making the accommodations right away. Still, 14 years later, many ATMs don’t have tactile cues on their keypads, Braille instructions an audible component with a screen over the shield to ensure privacy.

Entire article:
Banks lag in basic service to the blind
http://tinyurl.com/ide0212134

(ADAPT)
February 12, 2013

WASHINGTON, DC– [Excerpt provided by Inclusion Daily Express] A state administrator, nursing home administrator and economist . . .

This sounds like a setup for a joke, but it isn’t a laughing matter.

These are the final three Congressional appointments for the Long Term Care Commission.

So far, a dozen people have been appointed. These include doctors, policy experts, a union leader, and a couple nursing facility/assisted living representatives. A number have expertise in aging services.

None represent the disability community.

None use attendant services.

None represent the point of view that this is a civil rights issue.

Entire article:
A state administrator, nursing home administrator and economist
http://www.dimenet.com/hotnews/archive.php?mode=A&id=7634;&sort=D
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Demand that the Long Term Care Commission include representatives from ADAPT and NCIL!
http://capwiz.com/rochestercdr/issues/alert/?alertid=62384551

“Violence seemed unreal for a few moments.”

 

–Tomas Transtrømer

 

 

Seemed, like stability of lilies–

one might step from the boat

and swim with broken arms of faith…

 

 

It happened one day, late winter, an oboe played when I opened the door. Spring is not the Leonora Overture. It’s a moment for reflection in a tragic opera. Not everyone we love has made it this far, not this season. I stepped out onto small puddles of melting ice.

Last night (I’m told, for I don’t have TV right now) Saturday Night Live was hosted by “musical guest” Justin Bieber. When I first watched the show they actually featured edgy innovative musicians. 

Oh Frank, given where we are now, the decent people should despise themselves for not being kitchen appliances. But you already said that, didn’t you? 

  

As I grow older my hands open more slowly. Maybe they know more? What’s empty turns its face to us, said a good poet, long ago. My left hand agrees, longs to touch her. My right is stoical, leaves fingerprints like tracks of deer in snow.

 

During the heavy storm my life caught fire. This was not a surprise–I’d been training for this all my life, folding page after page into the iron stove. Didn’t you know? When a fire catches it is not lonely, it has no thirst, puts statistics to the side, is more real than all the tyrannies. 

 

Fire. In the center of the cross. And I woke feeling someone tugging on my arm though no one was there.