I once read a poem by the late Finnish poet Jarkko Laine who saw whores in Amsterdam putting ice cubes in their beer in the early morning. This is an image that has stayed with me. Its an image of compassion.
Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries, as the Dalai Lama has often said. Our survival both as individuals and communities will now depend on understanding this. Again, echoing the Dalai Lama, compassion is the radicalism of our time. It’s a radicalism that can be practiced daily. It’s also the hardest thing to put into action. “You must not hate those who do wrong or harmful things; but with compassion, you must do what you can to stop them — for they are harming themselves, as well as those who suffer from their actions.” (Dalai Lama)
Over the past few days I’ve been putting together a literary reading list for our present moment. I’ve been culling books that highlight the radicalism of what, for lack of a better term I’m calling compassionate irony. These poets, non-fictionists and fiction writers are assembled here in no discernible order—their work has come to me as I’ve walked in the public square. The public square is a steeper place now. I believe the following books are now necessities:
Viet Thanh Nguyen: The Sympathizer
James Lecesne: Absolute Brightness
Anne Finger: Elegy for a Disease
Gail Godwin: Father Melancholy’s Daughter
Colson Whitehead: The Underground Railroad
Adrienne Rich: An Atlas for the Difficult World
Jacqueline Woodson: Another Brooklyn
Kurt Vonnegut Jr: Slaughterhouse Five or The Children’s Crusade
Kwame Alexander: The Crossover
James Baldwin: Giovanni’s Room
Dorothy Allison: Two or Three Things I Know for Sure
Saul Bellow: The Adventures of Augie March
Azar Nafisi: Reading Lolita in Tehran
Naguib Mahfouz: The Cairo Trilogy
Pema Chodron: The Places That Scare You
Kenneth Rexroth: Collected Poems
Deborah Tall: A Family of Strangers
Kwame Dawes: Duppy Conqueror: New and Selected Poems
Wang Ping: The Last Communist Virgin
Robert Bly: My Sentence Was a Thousand Years of Joy
Bernard Malamud: The Stories of Bernard Malamud
Anita Desai: Clear Light of Day
Thomas Hardy: The Mayor of Casterbridge
https://john-irving.com/the-cider-house-rules/
Carl Jung: Memories, Dreams, Reflections
Paule Marshall: The Fisher King
Evelyn Waugh: Brideshead Revisited
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: Americanah
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/158932/midnights-children-by-salman-rushdie/
Naoki Higashida: The Reason I Jump
Per Petterson: Out Stealing Horses
Jean-Dominique Bauby: The Diving Bell and the Butterfly
Bruno Schulz: Sanitarium Under the Sign of the Hourglass
Jerzy Ficowski: Waiting for the Dog to Sleep
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/315251/the-secret-history-of-las-vegas-by-chris-abani/
Binyavanga Wainaina: How to Write About Africa
Joan Didion: The Year of Magical Thinking
Carlos Fuentes: The Death of Artemio Cruz
Mo Yan: Life and Death Are Wearing Me Out
The list above is my start—a syllabus of the compassionate climb. You’ll notice I’ve left Kafka off but include Bruno Schultz. Left off Camus but included Carl Jung. One prefers the early Rushdie and Thomas Hardy before he elevated his wife to sainthood. Compassion resists Aristotelian templates—it doesn’t like being talked about. Like a milk snake it shines in its own way. Compassion is more than fellow feeling or empathy—it is mercy. All the books listed here are merciful. Please, start your own lists. Share them. The literatures of compassion are necessarily shared in a university without walls.
Stephen Kuusisto is the author of the memoir Planet of the Blind.
Poet, Essayist, Blogger, Journalist, Memoirist, Disability Rights Advocate, Public Speaker, Professor, Syracuse University
