From a Notebook, Again…


Autumn, or, Rain and a Lingering Soft Light of Sleep


I brew coffee while steam pipes talk

And my smallness in the scheme of things

Circles cat-like, though I have no cat.


Bride’s dress, goat’s wool, side by side in attic.


Here we walk now

My dead brother with me—

He’s the one (sensibly) wearing

White rubber boots.


Pawnshop in Athens

Not for from Syntagma Sq.

Saw I’d remain half crazy

For one more day…


The trick:

There are lots of blind people my age

Who don’t much like themselves

Zig-zag lines of darkness

Make you (on the inside) drift like a leaf


Just a bone in a larger collection of bones,

What I am…call it the body if you like,

I know better. Soon now,

Rocks will roll straight through….


Mahler’s Fifth.

Never got over it.

Seven years old.

Gramophone. Winter.


On Blogging, Ten Years Worth

I started this blog ten years ago. In 2007 I didn’t know what I was getting into but I was mindful of Samuel Johnson’s dictum—via Boswell—”No man but a blockhead ever wrote, except for money.” “Would blogging,” I wondered, “be vanity and/or a waste of time?”

It’s both and neither. But it can be wonderfully egotistical.. Here’s one of my early posts:

I watched part of the Tony Blair-George W. Bush news conference and was reminded of the old folk story about the turtle on a fence post.  Here were two men who know that their respective places in history will be circumscribed by the course of events in Iraq.  They can’t imagine how this turtle got on top of that fence post.  And so of course they talked about courage and they spoke about the hard decisions that leaders must make and they spoke affirmingly of their corresponding strength of purpose.

The trouble is that for George W. Bush the war in Iraq was always meant to be nothing more than a theatrical production.  It was supposed to be easy.  It was never meant to be a war on terror.  Iraq was nothing more than an extravaganza.  And when it quickly became a civil war with a swift infusion of real terrorists Bush failed to put enough troops on the ground to manage the situation.  We don’t have to wait for history to know these things.

I am certain that our nation’s current course of action is utterly wrong.  No rational person inside or outside the military believes that we should keep our troops in a civil war.

But courage in this instance requires more than the social semiotics of the turtle on the fence post.  Iraq is not the front line in the “war on terror”–it’s a blunder  that looks and smells like imperialist occupation and the sooner the U.S. gets out the sooner we can work toward peaceful solutions for the many conflicts that are heating up across the Middle East.

Such a move will look at first like defeat.  But it won’t be.  History assures us of that.

Why was I egotistical? You can probably guess. It’s the last sentence. History offers no assurances about abandoning war, nor does it give examples of military withdrawals in the service of statecraft. Wars end badly. What was I thinking?

C.S. Lewis: “If a man thinks he is not conceited, he is very conceited indeed.”

Well there’s nothing like looking at old blog posts to bring one down a peg.

One has to ask, “Isn’t blogging after all just an ego trip?”

Of course it is. Being a blogger is like imitating those dudes who give away poems on the street in Haight Ashbury. The only difference is the street poets sometimes get paid.

So the glib immediacy of web writing is both its attraction—no editors, no delays, just my words emblazoned across the digi-sphere—and it’s greatest peril. You’re guaranteed to make an ass of yourself at least part of the time.

But it’s the other moments I’m attracted to and that keep me going. The immediacy gives you a chance to say some necessary, even righteous things in Kerouac style—first thought best thought—and if, like me, you come from a historically marginalized position this is all to the good. Example:

Disability in the Morning

Why am I such a sad man? Oh I’m funny alright. I can talk Dolphin like Robin Williams and imitate a medieval jester’s lavish chicken bone dance, but I’m sad. Some days I think it’s because of disability—a “dis-life” is a daily struggle and there’s no use pretending otherwise. If the attitudes of the able bodied don’t get you, the built environment will. Every cripple knows it.

My friend Bill Peace (who is paralyzed) and I often talk about the moments when, early in the morning, we sense respectively we don’t want to leave our houses. The spirit flags. Bill can see it coming: the ugly encounters with parking lot bullies who steal the handicapped parking; the smarmy waitress who says, “I don’t think I could live if I was in your situation.” These things really do occur almost daily. Blind? There are all sorts of miscreants waiting for you. “You can’t come in here with that dog.” “We don’t have time to make our software accessible.”

Whatever. And then one has to imagine the possibility that sadness precedes this life. We bring it with us. Born crying. We die crying, most of us. In the middle we’re supposed to smile.

Don’t get me wrong. I love smiling. I’m not against a good grin. 

Sadness, conditional, part of mortality, is exacerbated by disability and there’s no way around it.

The politics of disability struggle keep me awake, literally, for I think about all the disabled who don’t have jobs. They don’t have jobs because there’s profound discrimination in HR circles. If you don’t think so, try this:

Apply for a job. When they call you, tell them you’re blind. You’ll be astonished at what happens next.

Longfellow said: “Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”

A consolation I think: few will call me cold.

There’s something about the instantaneous element of web writing that produces a nurtured confessionalism, at least for me. Pushing myself to write quickly I throw caution aside. It’s not a barbaric yawp but it’s principled and necessary—I need to get something emotional out. Sometimes this need is sparked by nothing more than a new day:

Many Happy Returns to You and Your Shadow

The year is new—hypo allergenic like certain poodles—and you can feel lucky or dreadful but the year (like a poodle) will have none of you, for the year is high strung and indifferent as years must be. I won’t go on with the simile. I’m sorry. Perhaps you love your poodle. I’m sincere. I don’t wish to offend “poodlers”. No one can live without sentiment. Capitalism as its now bruited will do anything to rob you of your last ounce of sentiment. I’m sorry I kicked your poodle. But whatever I say, the year will have only indifference like the stars. 


When I think about the virgin year I’m mindful of just how provisional and difficult the lives of people with disabilities remain worldwide. If you want to know about cruelty and “ranking” (in the crudest sociological sense) than look to disability. Look to it here at home in the United States and you’ll see how the police in Maryland killed a young man with Down Syndrome; see how a blind man and his guide dog were kicked off a US Air flight; see how the liberal press (Chris Hedges, Democracy Now, Alternet, etc.) actively rooted for a disabled American veteran of the Iraq war to kill himself—just so they could pin it on Bush and Cheney. These examples are from the US. When you look at disability globally things are no better. A UNICEF Report on the state of the world’s children highlights the plight of kids with disabilities across the planet—ill clothed, unschooled, without health care, denied food. The virgin year indeed. Don’t let the new year rob you of your heart’s renewal. If you’re an able bodied person I suggest you write your Senator and demand passage of the UN Charter on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities. 


A friend sent me a poem in which he calculates how far William Wordsworth walked in his lifetime and in turn, calculates the poet’s mileage per line of verse. I love this idea. What if instead of watching vulgar automobile commercials (as most Americans will do today, especially if they watch college football—for every sporting event is now sponsored by Lexus, BMW, Audi, and Mercedes Benz. Gone are the days of shaving cream, Schlitz, and Aqua Velva)—what if instead of vulgar car advertisements Americans were challenged to imagine their human and social productivity per mile? Emerson would have championed this. Why I think even Teddy Roosevelt would have endorsed such a plan. Our new year dawns on a nation more politically immune to suffering and the true calling of our souls than at any time in its history. I take no pleasure saying so. 


Here’s wishing you long walks, walks with ideas, chance meetings with wise and kind strangers. And triumphs of the spirit. I’m wishing you those. 


I think we gave away too much when we abandoned Freud and Jung, preferring pills and “big pharma” to the hard work—the acknowledgment—that the unconscious has lots of darkness. America is a nation of terrifying smiles. I can’t find the quote right now, but Alice Munro said recently the most frightening people are the do gooders (paraphrase mine). I tend to think we’re in Fascist times and its proper and necessary both to say it aloud and to know who you’re looking at—whether on television or in a board room or on a street corner. As World War II commenced the poet W.H. Auden wrote the following poem. It strikes an eerie chord, or if not a chord precisely, maybe some thermemin music



Blessed Event


Round the three actors in any blessed event

Is always standing an invisible audience of four,

The double twins, the fallen natures of man.


On the Left they remember difficult childhoods,

On the Right they have forgotten why they were so happy,

Above sit the best decisive people,

Below they must kneel all day so as not to be governed. 


Four voices just audible in the hush of any Christmas:

Accept my friendship or die.

I shall keep order and not very much will happen.

Bring me luck and of course I’ll support you.

I smell blood and an era of prominent madmen.


But the Three hear nothing and are blind even to the landscape 

With its towns and rivers and pretty pieces of nonsense.

He, all father, repenting their animal nights,

Cries: Why did she have to be tortured? It is all my fault.

Once more a virgin, She whispers: The Future shall never suffer.

And the New Life awkwardly touches its home, beginning to fumble

About in the Truth for the straight successful Way

Which will always appear to end in some dreadful defeat.




Yes. The Wise Men, poor dears, have walked into a story “in medias res” and damned if every human actor isn’t two actors—one smiling, the other stricken by guilt. What a dramatis personnae. Cue that Theremin music indeed. 


And the new year with its pretty pieces of nonsense is here. 


So if ostensibly I write to you about a clean slate, look behind me to see what my shadow is up to. 


I know for certain, owing to dreams, my shadow is very upset about the children of war. 


Happy new year. Small letters. Happy straight successful Way. Capital “W” for will and work.



I think blogging has turned me, made me warmer to readers. And also more ironic about my own peccadilloes and motives. My shadow is upset and yours is too. We can see our shadows dancing.

When I was twenty and wildly in love with poetry I admired indirection and complexity in writing. And though I still do (who can give up on Wallace Stevens?) I’ve grown to demand fewer refinements from myself. It’s not that I want to blab about my tennis shoes, but really, one can’t be finicky and openly contrarian at the same time. If being an awakened disabled person has taught me anything it’s that delay and deferral have no place in advocacy. Say what’s on your mind. Example:

Why “Nothing About Us Without Us” Should Be Required Reading for Everyone in Higher Education

In his groundbreaking book Nothing About Us Without Us, published in 1998, James Charlton declared the disabled have a culture, an extensive one, and that time is up for able bodied people to be making decisions about the disabled without their input. In one of my favorite passages Charlton writes about the imperatives behind his book:

““Nothing About Us Without Us” requires people with disabilities to recognize their need to control and take responsibility for their own lives. It also forces political-economic and cultural systems to incorporate people with disabilities into the decision-making process and to recognize that the experiential knowledge of these people is pivotal in making decisions that affect their lives. Third, while the number of people affected by this epistemological breakthrough is relatively small, a movement has emerged. The disability rights movement has developed its own ideology and politics. It is a liberation movement that is confronting the realpolitik of the world at large. The demand “Nothing About Us Without Us” is a demand for self-determination and a necessary precedent to liberation. Fourth, the philosophy and organization that the international DRM {Disability Rights Movement} embraces includes independence and integration, empowerment and human rights, and self-help and self-determination. The demand “Nothing About Us Without Us” affirms the essence of these principles. Finally, the DRM is one of many emerging movements in which new attitudes and world views are being created. Through its struggle comes a vision that requires a fundamental reordering of priorities and resources.”

Excerpt From: James I. Charlton. “Nothing About Us Without Us.” iBooks.

Nowadays self-determination for the disabled has grown from a nascent concept to a global movement. From Africa to Asia, Finland to the Middle East, disability activists are not merely calling for their rights but are living their lives in accord with the best principles of independence and empowerment—educating others, assisting their sisters and brothers, demanding opportunities for children, health care, freedom to travel…just to name the basics.

The passage of the Americans with Disabilities Act in 1990 helped create international opportunities for dialogue between the disabled and served to incite a worldwide confrontation with what Charlton calls “realpolitik” but I’m calling “business as usual” because—why not?

What does “business as usual” mean where disability is concerned? Historically the disabled have been segregated, locked up, hidden, euthanized, sterilized, denied educational opportunities, kept out of public spaces, and perhaps worst of all—they’ve been talked over. Their lives are narrated (and mediated) by medicine and rehabilitation programs that always fortify pejorative meanings about disability—not disability as it’s actually lived, but instead reinforcing how it’s understood by the public. Biz as Usual pushes a medical model of disability which designates imperfect bodies, ill bodies, “incurable” bodies as outlier corporealities, things not devoutly to be wished—they become failed patients, abnormalities. Accordingly the abnormal must be farmed out to “special” places which stand at the edge of the fairground where normal people remain happily assembled. Consider the average college campus. Disability is “dealt with” “managed” “serviced” “accommodated” by underfunded offices that in many instances are hard to locate both physically and administratively. I’ve been to many universities where the disability services office is in the basement of a building—reachable only by elevator, or on the top floor of a building, reachable only by elevator—where in the event of fire there’s no way out. I’ve been to campuses where renovations to facilities have left out necessary improvements to make auditoriums accessible; classrooms usable; technology approachable; where there’s minimal or entirely unacceptable transportation for disabled people. These examples are legion and not exceptions. In Biz as Usual disability is conceived as a marginal issue, something that must be grudgingly acknowledged because of the Rehab Act of 1974 and the ADA of 1990, but not as a matter of culture, inclusion, communication, or respect. When college administrations make decisions about the physical or digital agora they seldom if ever consult with the disability communities on their campuses. “Nothing About Us Without Us” should be required reading for administrators, staff, and faculty in higher ed. Of course in 99% of the cases, there’s no required reading for the aforementioned. Faculty know next to nothing about disability, relying on the hidden “special” unit to solve whatever student accommodation request comes their way—and note, accommodation is always narrated as a problem. And so the disabled student is a problem. He or she is defective and trying to get into the happy tent. Faculty Member A resents having to think about this. “Doesn’t someone else handle this?” The disabled must be “handled” —the imagery is perfect given our histories, we’re straight jacketed and dragged away.

At Syracuse we offered the first disability studies courses in the country. We understand disability is part of our diversity and inclusion aspirations. But still we have problems. All too many students, staff, and faculty with disabilities feel left out of important conversations. And we have real problems. Unfortunately, raising them, we’re often made to feel like oppositional figures, malcontents, stylized figures with megaphones, waving our crutches. This should be easy to solve. Invite the disability community “in”—ask them what they think. Employ what I like to call the Ed Koch gambit—“How am I doing?” If the question is sincere it will come after listening. And then we will take positive, culturally engaged action.

Back to James Charlton whose book remains indispensable.

“Life itself is a series of struggles—some won, some lost. Resistance for most people with disabilities is a necessity for survival. The DRM should never lose sight of this. Throughout the course of this project, I have been impressed with how many of the stories and experiences of politically active people with disabilities reflect this proposition. We have begun to speak for ourselves, to make demands, to organize, and to educate others. ”

Excerpt From: James I. Charlton. “Nothing About Us Without Us.” iBooks.

In the coming years “best practices” in every human endeavor must acknowledge the experiences of the marginalized and embrace the opportunities for education diversity offers.

I think colleges and universities do a lousy job with disability. Administrators believe listening to disabled students and staff is a mistake and look for ways to avoid it. Those of us for whom this matters feel the contempt.

What has blogging done for me, or done to me, as a poet? Ha! I won’t presume to tell. If you don’t honor poetry by asserting her essential mystery you’ll be in trouble. But I can say I’m less finicky. I don’t throw paint at the walls but I’m less cautious than I used to be. I used to think I had to feel a certain way to write a poem. I can’t describe that feeling but it was moody, self-abnegating, even obsessive. My pencils had to be lined up like boy scouts. Not a one could be crooked.

Blogging has led me to writing prose poems like this:

Hydra and Cricket: A Micro Memoir

Always I write about the boy, not out of innocence, but because he is me and not me and the not me is where the advantages of irony can be found. I like knowing this. The boy always loved hieroglyphs. Once the boy spent a day believing he was an Ibis. In school they made fun of him for being blind. The Ibis was better. People who dismiss mythology probably don’t understand the nature of personal suffering. Hercules and the Hydra together make a child. The clear sunlight and the boy searching for mushrooms. He was all alone in the woods. He did not play with toy soldiers. He played with the life around him, the miniature “up close” creatures that let him in. “They are me and not me,” he thought. “That also means I am not me.” Long before there was a disability rights movement he knew he wasn’t any one thing. Later in college he read Emerson and he admired “Self Reliance” and: “Be yourself; no base imitator of another, but your best self. There is something which you can do better than another. Listen to the inward voice and bravely obey that. Do the things at which you are great, not what you were never made for.” Secrets came to him then. He lay face down on the frozen pond and knew there was ice under the ice but the fish could move there. And there were private crickets inside his sleeves. He could talk sideways to living things. That boy is me and not me. The man cannot spend his day face down with the ice fish though often he would like to do this. The poor man must workaday workaday in the steep hours feeling the tensile struggle to retain his innocence and curiosity. If he has irony its in the service of protection. The boy ran away; the man carries the woods with him. And the man knows why this isn’t sentimental at all. He also rescues crickets whenever he can.

What else?

A blogger can cry with affection:

Lately as spring arrives and the days grow longer I’ve found myself dreaming of the dead–though not the abstrract chalky missing, but rather those who I have loved and who I still miss though my days are filled with bus schedules and the nearly private gamesmanship  of getting by in the political world.

I miss John Lydenberg, Professor of English at Hobart and William Smith Colleges who taught me how to read Herman Melville. I deeply miss his sharp, unsentimental humor and his unapologetic leftist politics which he learned at Harvard in the years before the second world war when pacifism and idealism weren’t yet sullied by all that’s come since. I especially miss his game of cutting out funny, overlooked newspaper headlines: “Young Couple Happy on Small Newspaper” was particuarly good. I thought of him the other day when I read: “Pope’s Condom-stance Under Fire” .

I miss my father who died on Easter Sunday 2000. One doesn’t need a reason to miss one’s father but today I miss him because I’ve been  reading William Manchester’s “The LastLion” about Winston Churchill and I know that he would have very interesting things to say both about Manchester as a historian and about Sir Winston. I miss my dad’s voice. I miss the way he used to sing to the dog.

14 years ago today I arrived home in Ithaca, New York with my first guide dog “Corky” who

changed my life in a thousand ways. How I miss her! I could start crying right now.

So I love the odd, innocent, half-shy silliness of the Bloomsbury crowd. Tonight I want to wear a turban with a sapphire pinned to the front. I want to carry on a bit with my gorgeous and beloved dead and feel them touching my hair.

I don’t think that’s too much to ask.


Mr. Lincoln, I’m Sad This Morning

Disability can be found everywhere in history once you learn to look for it. President Lincoln’s depression lead him to abandon the White House for several days. When he returned he unveiled the Emancipation Proclamation to his startled cabinet.

Lincoln’s moodiness allowed him to reflect on the value of life and on what was right. That’s Lincoln’s story. Not all who are bi-polar have the moral qualities of Lincoln. And not all depressed people ask themselves what the nature of suffering can teach them. Yet after a certain age one finds this caste of mind is important. What does it mean to feel my heart is ripped out and is now under my shoe? The proper tears, those mixed with luck, tell us to walk for a time because weeping can be a map. Maps, all maps, are born of agonies. One sees disability wisdoms are not often or probable in textbooks. Look for the stains at the paper’s edges.

As a poet I like the margins.

There are so many minutes for which no proper names exist. Deep in the night I carved my name on a seed. Now I’ve awakened outside the broken temple.

Mr. Lincoln I am sad this morning.

I’m thinking of these lines by Cesar Vallejo, the great Peruvian poet:

“There are blows in life so violent—I can’t answer!

Blows as if from the hatred of God; as if before them,

the deep waters of everything lived through

were backed up in the soul … I can’t answer!”

(translated by Robert Bly)

Oh I can’t answer but I’m searching the corrugated quick of the page.

Mr. Lincoln…


Ode to Luigi, a Thoroughbred


After everything I will love the face of this horse

Who sees a hemisphere without flies

And loves what he loves. 


His song, (which I do not know)

Is the same, forward and backward,

song of teeth, heart, and feet,


song in which all things rise

while in pursuit–

the last rose of summer, a yellow fence,


degrees of sight, circumstances of the grass.

Call him: you see his eyes first,

Intangible, bottomless, 


rich with humble discoveries.

The star on his head is a precious stone

which makes me sadly joyful like a boy. 


We cannot change seasons

or elude the dark,

but we can be touched by sky. 


Photo: Luigi is a dark brown/bay thoroughbred.  This is a

close-up of just his face/profile as he reaches down to eat grass. 

He's wearing a black/silver halter w/ red lead line.

Ota Benga Blues

I confess that war, pestilence, natural disasters and the nation’s collapsing infrastructure have recently done a good deal to erode my sense of humor. I’m guessing that you, in turn, likely have your own inner struggles with our blemished planet.

To cheer myself I decided to take a little walk around my neighborhood. The weather was fair after the Biblical Midwestern floods. I was feeling cautiously optimistic. As far as I could tell I wasn’t dead. 

Then I met them: a middle aged couple strolling about ten to fifteen yards ahead of me on the sidewalk.

Now you may well ask: “How do you know they were a middle aged couple, etc. since you can’t see worth a damn,” and I’d say to you that you’re absolutely right—they might have been past middle age—they could have been Senior Citizens, or perhaps they were a couple of lumpy Sasquatch wearing Izod shirts and shorts.    

And you’d be right to point out this “wrinkle” of veracity not merely in this instance but in all narrative employments rendered by means of my pen. 

It’s true: I have no idea what these two individuals look like. But if you want truth I suggest you read the “Style” section of the New York Times.

They were slow. And they were trying to go faster because I was coming up quickly from behind with my guide dog.

Their respective feet suddenly went “skippy-scuppy, skippy scuppy” and I could hear the drape of their considerable shorts making “zith zith” noises.

Yep. They were almost running to stay ahead of me. Then they reached the perpendicular turn that I was planning to take, and sure enough: they stopped and spun around (shorts making little gulping noises) and they stared as I came toward them.

In the split second when they might have said “Hello Citizen” or “Boy Howdy Pardner!” they said nothing.  They were staring. They were also blocking the very turn I was planning to take and since they had enough time to look at me and say something and chose instead to say zilch I felt the old “creepy crawly disabled person being stared at by toddling pink people blues”. 

It happens sometimes. I have a nickname for these kinds of people. I call them “Bob and Betty Boop”.

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A Halloween Scare

In October of 1962 I had my first lesson in social engineering, though I didn’t know what it was called. I simply thought that the kid across the street had an unfortunate Halloween costume, though I didn’t know what that was called. The poor guy was seven years old, the kid across the street. He was my age. He was a pretty cool kid. I liked him. Why I even thought of him as being "my best friend". I’ll call him "Jack" because what with President Kennedy in the White House, "Jack" was the coolest name at the time.

Poor Jack went out on Halloween night of 1962 wearing a "home made costume" and I probably don’t need to say anything more. That was the age of TV Land, of unbridled American prosperity, and yes, the age of cheap plastic. It is hard to remember perhaps, that there was a moment when all those things were new. Accordingly all the kids wore Yogi Bear masks, Lone Ranger masks, Bugs Bunny and Snow White masks, and of course you had your perennial pirate and John Wayne outfits.

Poor Jack.

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Alone Again, Naturally

It’s my turn.  Now I am alone in the woods on an island in Lake Winnipesaukee, NH with only my two dogs for companionship.  And as hard as this may be, I have to confess: I gave Steve a hard time, but the truth is it is a privilege to be here, and for a lot of reasons.  Most of them are obvious.

I’ve been here since Sunday evening.  The days are beautiful Indian summer days, however the evenings are quite cool – low 40’s – and today I must go prowl for wood for the wood stove.   I’m almost out.  I may have to pilfer from the neighbors.  Since they’re not here, they’ll not be needing it – this week anyway.

This morning I woke up to the sounds of an animal on the roof.  It’s a new  metal roof, and so I could hear everything.   It sounded bigger than a squirrel and it caused my poor 13 year old Labrador to worry.  I climbed out of bed and curled up on the floor next to my trembling dog.  He’s very sensitive and unfortunately, the older he gets the more he worries.  He’s fine now though.  He’s curled up in a ball in the sunshine out on the deck.

Steve and I bought this cabin 6 years ago in the hopes that perhaps someday, we’ll get to spend time here – together.  Now that we have an empty nest it may be easier to arrange – someday.  So for now, Steve and I stagger our visits.  He spends most of the summer here.  I get here when I can.

It just dawned on me this morning what I like most about coming here and being alone.  It’s a real vacation – from myself.  While here I simply don’t worry about:

  • Chores?  Only the ones I assign myself, when I feel like it.  Last night’s dishes are still in the sink.
  • Shave my legs?  Not if I’m not wearing shorts this time of year.
  • Shower?  Only ’cause I can’t stand the "bed head" look for more than two days.
  • Make-up?  The wild turkeys may, but the dogs aren’t running in the opposite direction.  Why bother?
  • Deodorant?  There are some things I can’t do with out.  The dogs may run with the turkeys.
  • Happy Hour?  Hmmm.  It’s only 9:49 a.m. but hey, what’s that saying?  It’s 5:00 somewhere!
  • Cooking?  Peanut M&M’s have protein.  So does the cheese I have with the crackers I have with wine.  I’m good.
  • Dust?  I’m living amongst the spiders.  The dust slows them in their tracks.
  • Husband?  He says he’s missing me but if I need a vacation  – from myself – I can’t help think that he could use one from me too.

Still, having said all that, as nice a break from myself as this is, I’d trade it all in if I could have my husband here with me.  I don’t need a vacation from myself THAT badly…

~ Connie

Chautauqua Mystique

We all know that human beings are tribal creatures and that we suffer when we don’t have a neighborhood to live in.  Even "deviants" like academics and bishops need to have a community.  Still, knowing this and feeling it are substantially different experiences and I was reminded of this during my recent two day visit to Chautauqua in western New York.  Plenty of people have written about Chautauqua and tons of really important people have gathered there over the last century and far be it for me to claim any special insights about this remarkable gathering place.  All I can say is that I have seldom beheld so many intellectually curious and kindly people in one location.  From the visiting artists and thinkers to the staff who maintain the generous grounds to the very children of the families who come to the lakeshore to engage with the arts and sciences, everyone was humanely awake.  People were curious about each other.  "By God," I thought, "this is the America that Walt Whitman once hoped we might create."  We are in this life together and living it must be a collective celebration if this social experiment is to work.

I am by nature a mildly suspicious man and so I kept thinking that some odious and officious little person would appear and tell me that I obviously didn’t belong there.  I imagined that some guy wearing an Odd Fellow’s fez would turn up and yell at me for walking with my dog on the grass.  Or maybe someone would say that my books are "too wordy" or "too dirty" or someone would say that I obviously buy my shoes at the discount warehouse.

But as far as I know, no one wearing the "fez of bureaucracy" followed me about.

I was impressed by all kinds of events: Peter Gelb spoke about his experiences as the new managing director of the Metropolitan Opera.  Daniel Levitin talked about his career as a rock musician turned neurologist–he’s the author of a terrific book entitled "This is Your Brain on Music".  I got to hear the contemporary Israeli composer Yinam Leef talk about time and its role in the composition of his work.  I met Mary Rogers, the composer of the signature Broadway musical comedy "Once Upon a Mattress" and Connie and I had the opportunity to see and hear a wonderful production of that famous show.

Still, the signature moment for me was when a pre-teen boy, maybe around 11 years old, stopped on the sidewalk because he heard Connie and I talking with a couple who were walking their Wheaton Terrier.   We were saying that we’ve thought about getting one of these dogs someday.  This boy stopped in his tracks and turned and with evident joy encouraged us to do it.  You see, he also has a Wheaton Terrier.

In an era of besotted video game kids who mostly mumble, well, this was a moment of Chautauqua mystique: even the kids are encouraging of others and fully awake.


The Grinch Who Stole Democracy

Early this morning I was treated to the happy sounds of a family as they taught the art of water skiing to their youngish children. Oh how happy they were! The kiddies squealed and chirped; daddy-o barked his good natured encouragement; mommy-o offered sensible suggestions regarding matters of posture–the moment was Jeffersonian in its mimesis. The pursuit of happiness was right there before me.

I know I should champion this very principle: attendant and collective happiness is the "stuff" of democracy.

But I felt like the Grinch of democracy. I shut the windows and doors of the cabin and went about my business with a sneer.

How is it that I can be offended by the joys of others? If I lie to myself, this is simply a matter of intellectual inconvenience–you know, the artist interrupted at his desk by the happiness of neighborly tots. Oh but when I try that explanation on for size I remember that Einstein used to work on his calculations while his children played all around him. No honest desk jockey can use the distant cries of the neighbors as grist for the mill of melancholy.

Okay, I thought, what about this: I had an unhappy childhood. I have difficulty hearing the casual joys of others.

Nah. This won’t work. Surely if this kind of cheap reaction formation was the crux of the biscuit, then it would follow logically that I also take pleasure in the unhappiness of others. "Aw, too bad little Johnny got his water-ski stuck and fell sidelong into that water buoy and therefore has to wear that intricate nay, even Rococo body cast for months."

No, I don’t get any pleasure from the pain of others. I know that W.C.Fields said that the pain of others was an essential element of comedy. But he was W.C. Fields and the man died friendless and yes, his kids hated him.

Maybe I’m the Grinch of Democracy because while I must favor the happiness of others I don’t want to know about it. This gets closer to the truth.

This is why democracy is such a challenge.

This is why the rich don’t have to think about democracy very much.

This is why the poor and the middle classes must reaffirm and reeducate themselves about the history and nature of American representative government.

Not long ago I was asked to speak at a city council meeting in Worthington, Ohio. Some local blind folks were asking the town to put some talking street signs at a handful of busy street crossings.

The city of Worthington voted to put in the talking street signs but the debate leading up to the decision was really interesting. One citizen showed up and talked at great length about how a talking street sign would keep his children awake.

When it was explained that the sign would be discreet and that it wouldn’t really affect his household, this fellow began whining about the cost to the general public of putting in such a street sign.

I didn’t argue with the fellow. My role in the affair was to simply outline how the signs could be purchased and to help the city council remember that under the ADA the request for safe street crossings was in fact a "reasonable accommodation" and everyone agreed.

I didn’t have time on that particular evening to provide an informal civics lesson to this angry citizen who felt that helping the blind was both a personal and a pecuniary inconvenience.

But this morning I remembered that moment standing before the Worthington city council. The happiness of others is critical to our collective success.

It doesn’t really matter why I’m an occasional grinch.

What matters is that in a democracy the grinch can put it all in perspective.


The Index

When I look inside myself I find that I’m a "believer"–though things can get complicated. For instance: I believe in Jesus but I agree with Bishop Tutu that Christianity says absolutely nothing about homosexuality. Jesus simply talks about loving your neighbor.

I have a hard time loving my next door neighbor. He and his wife think they’re better than I am. They stare at me and don’t say hello because they imagine that since I’m blind I won’t know what they’re doing.

I believe in the principle of "one man, one vote" and "one woman, one vote" and I despair that since the late 19th century American corporations have been given the economic power to undermine this basic tenet of democracy. I may be unhappy with my neighbor, but his vote should have equal weight with the influence of Raytheon Corporation. Of course we all know that things dont work this way. As a "believer" I must assume a kind of essential silliness. One person, one vote. Love your neighbor. Community-minded corporations.

As a believer I believe that flawed individuals can be good people. Hooray for Al Gore. Hooray for Tony Blair who is going to try out for the peacemakers team. I shall refuse to become terminally cynical yessir.

I believe that Mark Rich and Scooter Libby should both have gone to jail. I believe two wrongs don’t make a right. I believe that people who have disabling conditions should never be treated as second class citizens. I believe that the United States was wrong when it didn’t sign the United Nations charter on global rights for persons with disabilities.

I believe teenagers should be given sex education.

I believe baseball should not allow Barry Bonds to hold the homerun record without some kind of asterisk in the record book which will disclose for all generations to come that he cheated.

I believe that cat lovers are equal to dog lovers.

I do not believe in "therapy tarantulas" and you won’t be able to change my mind.

I do not believe that the current President of the United States is "essentially a good guy". In my view, he’s the guy in the frat house who goes along with any idea that’s proposed by the "in crowd" which is a long winded way of saying that he’s a follower and not a leader.

I don’t believe in aroma therapy. In general I find that the best smells are really bad for you. I for instance particularly love the smell of freshly lit cigarettes.

I do not believe in smoking.

I don’t really believe that cat lovers are equal to dog lovers. But I think they’re educable.

Just joking.

I believe my neighbors love their cat.

I believe that Ernest Hemingway’s short story "A Clean Well lighted Place" is the finest piece of short fiction ever written.

I believe that his novel, "The Old Man and the Sea" is mostly poetry.

I believe that Jimmy Carter is the most Christian President this nation has ever had.

I believe that Ringo Starr is a damned good drummer.

I don’t believe that all sushi is equal.

I don’t believe that animals should be made to wear clothes.

I don’t believe that poker games should be aired on tv.

I don’t believe in tv.

I do believe that the current version of William Shatner is a sublime development.

I am now going out into the world freshly resolved to love everyone.